The holidays can be a bit lonely without that special someone to share them with. But how do you find the person you were meant to be with? There are millions of people on the planet. How do you zero in on your soul mate?
To find your other half, you need to clear a path between the two of you. Convince the universe that you have already found him or her, and before you know it, that person will show up in your life.
It’s called the “Law of Attraction.”
Here are 14 steps to attracting your soul mate:
- Write down exactly what it is you want in a mate…every positive detail. Keep adding to the list as you think of new traits and qualities.
- Avoid the negatives and focus on the positives. List what you want and don’t define what you don’t want.
- Look in a mirror and tell yourself that you truly deserve him or her. Genuinely affirm this. Deep down in your subconscious, you must absolutely believe it to receive it.
- Feel that this person is already a part of your life. He/she is with you at meal time, exercising, shopping. In the shower, affirm it. Driving to work, feel it.
- Make vacation and party plans. Carry on as if this person was right there beside you. Plan your next apartment, the kind of car you will drive together. See every detail.
- Wear a new bracelet or a rubber band as a reminder, switching wrists often so it doesn’t get stale. Every time you look at the bracelet, reaffirm your feelings and thoughts. There is no limit to the number of times this can be done throughout your day. The more often, the better.
- Place the list of your heart’s desire on the night stand. Morning and evening, place your hand over the list and feel the potential for love and the promise of happiness.
- Act as if you are in a restaurant. Place your order with the server. Once you have ordered, go on with your life comfortable certain that your meal will be delivered in due time. It’s the same in attracting your soul mate. Get your order in and then enjoy this creative experience. It’s all about the law of attraction. You will get what you think about regularly. It’s a law of nature.
- Collect perfect moments. Remember a time when you were transformed. Now use your mind and body to visualize and recall both the perfect moment and your heart’s desire. Feel this person as a part of you. Absorb him or her into your life in that perfect moment.
- Smile!! During each and every one of the above exercises, smile! Smiling has power. After all, you are now a very happy person who can feel the love your life with you.
- Carry a small “mate finder” stone. Rub it and feel the positive energy. Visualize the look, smell, feel and taste of your mate. Caress it and imagine the face of your soul mate. Look deeply into their eyes.
- Remember that this individual is also seeking you, so you need to GET OUT THERE. See yourself as a powerful magnet drawing two people together…you and your soul mate.
- It is VITAL that you act as if you have already found this person. This isn’t a hope or a dream, it’s a reality. Actively participate in attracting this person. This will only work if you feel it as deeply as you would if it had already happened. Give thanks regularly for this.
- Don’t sit home and wait. This is an activity, so get out and make it happen.
Have a success story? Please email ebenson@arisefoundation.org with how you used the 14 steps to attract your soul mate.
